Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged all you need is love, Beatles, expectations, i am complete, love, love songs, perfect, relationships, romance, self worth on February 24, 2012| Leave a Comment »
Ok, a little reality check.
Love is amazing.
Love comes in all forms.
To feel love in some form is a necessity in our lives.
But love is not all we need.
And when we start thinking this way
we are in for big disappointment.
A possible song title:
“Communication, patience, understanding, compassion,
humor, practicality, a sense of responsibility,
and the knowledge that no one is going to
perfectly meet all my needs…
is all you need”
Hmmm…
I don’t think that would have made the Top 40.
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged expectations, God's love, love, poetry, pressure, relationships, self worth on February 21, 2012| Leave a Comment »
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged answers, blessings, expectations, grace, i am complete, love, perfect, relationships, respect, romance, self worth, value, worth on February 20, 2012| 2 Comments »
What does love
feel like,
look like,
sound like
to you?
The answer will be so different for each of us…
I would love to hear your thoughts in the comment section!
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged expectations, fairy tales, God, i am complete, love, pressure, relationships, rescue, self worth on February 18, 2012| 1 Comment »
I do not need someone to rescue me
I am capable of
making sure I am cared for and loved
making sure I am safe and secure
in fact – here I am 🙂
I can charge ahead on my own majestic horse
lift my own circumstances
free myself from negative influences
connect with the power of God
in me
and rescue myself
I deserve it and I can do it
Posted in i AM complete, Poetry, Self worth, tagged expectations, i am complete, lies, love, Love Actually, perfect, poetry, pressure, relationships, romance, romantic comedies, self worth on February 17, 2012| 2 Comments »
Another romantic comedy
flits to my mind
the idea that someone would “See me as perfect”
creates fear of it’s own kind
It’s not endearing
to see a false version of me
It makes me feel pressure
and wonder who you want me to be
I am me
Perfection only in God’s eyes
let’s keep it real between us
no romanticized lies
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged i am complete, love, relationships, roles, self, self worth, value on February 16, 2012| 2 Comments »
You are a …
mother, father, wife, husband, daughter, son,
leader, assistant, friend, teacher, student, counselor,
nurse, lover, fighter, musician, poet,
sister, brother, man, woman…
None of it defines who you are.
None of it speaks to your value or worth.
No matter what you do, no matter what roles you have in life
You have value just in being you.
(or ex)
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged expectations, i am complete, love, relationships, respect, romance, self worth, true love, Valentine's Day on February 13, 2012| 2 Comments »
real love
true love
selfless love
is in the heart
of each of us
it’s not about expectations
yours or mine
it’s not about the gifts we exchange
the surprises we give
or don’t
it’s about being open
being trusting
being trustworthy
never claiming
never resenting
just loving.
Posted in i AM complete, Praise, Self worth, tagged expectations, God, God's love, i am complete, love, perfect, relationships, romance, self worth on February 12, 2012| Leave a Comment »
We spend a lot of time in our lives
looking for the perfect love
or trying to create it with our partner
but only God’s love is perfect
will meet every need
fill every space
and He does love you
no matter what
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged expectations, i am complete, love, pressure, relationships, respect, romance, self worth, Valentine's Day on February 11, 2012| Leave a Comment »
It is so easy
to get confused
to blur the lines
to use sex
in place of love
to fill a void
to feel good
about
myself
But it usually
doesn’t work out
that way
So, I will look for the fine line
that separates love and sex
I see that sex can be part of love
but they are not the same
and I will know the difference
I am valuable
for more than
my body
for more than
how I make you feel
and I am complete
as I am.
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged expectations, i am complete, love, perfect, pressure, relationships, respect, romance, self worth, Valentine's Day on February 10, 2012| Leave a Comment »
Getting caught up in the “romance” around us?
Here’s to keeping some healthy perspective!
I will not let unrealistic expectations cloud my view of life.
I am loved. I am valuable. I am complete.
Know My Worth 