How do we know if the love is real? We are cherished for who we are.
Thank you, mama
for knowing what love should look like
for giving it with all your heart
for believing you deserve it in return
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged expectations, God's love, heart, i am complete, love, mom, mother's love, relationships, self worth, special, thankfulness on February 25, 2012| Leave a Comment »
How do we know if the love is real? We are cherished for who we are.
Thank you, mama
for knowing what love should look like
for giving it with all your heart
for believing you deserve it in return
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged all you need is love, Beatles, expectations, i am complete, love, love songs, perfect, relationships, romance, self worth on February 24, 2012| Leave a Comment »
Ok, a little reality check.
Love is amazing.
Love comes in all forms.
To feel love in some form is a necessity in our lives.
But love is not all we need.
And when we start thinking this way
we are in for big disappointment.
A possible song title:
“Communication, patience, understanding, compassion,
humor, practicality, a sense of responsibility,
and the knowledge that no one is going to
perfectly meet all my needs…
is all you need”
Hmmm…
I don’t think that would have made the Top 40.
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged forgiveness, grace, i am complete, kindness, love, pressure, self worth on February 23, 2012| Leave a Comment »
Am I kind to myself?
Or am I harsh with the words I repeat in my head?
Am I critical of me?
Or can I be gentle when I fail?
Plant
Kindness
Grow
Love
Being able to love myself for who I am starts with kindness to myself
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged expectations, God's love, love, poetry, pressure, relationships, self worth on February 21, 2012| Leave a Comment »
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged answers, blessings, expectations, grace, i am complete, love, perfect, relationships, respect, romance, self worth, value, worth on February 20, 2012| 2 Comments »
What does love
feel like,
look like,
sound like
to you?
The answer will be so different for each of us…
I would love to hear your thoughts in the comment section!

Posted in i AM complete, Praise, Self worth, tagged freedom, God, grace, i am complete, love, perfect, pressure, self worth on February 19, 2012| 1 Comment »
There is freedom in His grace
it covers all that I am
all the mistakes that I make
all the wounds that I wear
When I actually stop
trying to do it all myself
and allow brokenness to bubble up
He handles everything
Lord, help me to remember
today and every day
I am complete
I am free
in you.
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged expectations, fairy tales, God, i am complete, love, pressure, relationships, rescue, self worth on February 18, 2012| 1 Comment »
I do not need someone to rescue me
I am capable of
making sure I am cared for and loved
making sure I am safe and secure
in fact – here I am 🙂
I can charge ahead on my own majestic horse
lift my own circumstances
free myself from negative influences
connect with the power of God
in me
and rescue myself
I deserve it and I can do it
Posted in i AM complete, Poetry, Self worth, tagged expectations, i am complete, lies, love, Love Actually, perfect, poetry, pressure, relationships, romance, romantic comedies, self worth on February 17, 2012| 2 Comments »
Another romantic comedy
flits to my mind
the idea that someone would “See me as perfect”
creates fear of it’s own kind
It’s not endearing
to see a false version of me
It makes me feel pressure
and wonder who you want me to be
I am me
Perfection only in God’s eyes
let’s keep it real between us
no romanticized lies
Posted in i AM complete, Self worth, tagged i am complete, love, relationships, roles, self, self worth, value on February 16, 2012| 2 Comments »
You are a …
mother, father, wife, husband, daughter, son,
leader, assistant, friend, teacher, student, counselor,
nurse, lover, fighter, musician, poet,
sister, brother, man, woman…
None of it defines who you are.
None of it speaks to your value or worth.
No matter what you do, no matter what roles you have in life
You have value just in being you.

(or ex)